SZ: Yeah. I’m also, kind of a scaredy-cat.
NB: What? You had adventures this year.
SZ: I do adventure.
NB: You’ve been on jet skis.
SZ: Yeah. [laughs].
NB: You’ve been on go-karts.
SZ: I didn’t get on a, in a fast car, like you did. Like, I’m not gonna drive a Ferrari, or do the like, drifting experience. That, scares me.
NB: Oh, I gotta get back and do that.
LA: Wait, drifting, as in Fast and Furious?
NB: Yeah, so they have a Hellcat, and they drift it for you and you just sit in the back seat. And they get so close to the, like, little dividers and stuff. It’s real wild. It looks like so much fun.
LA: Wait. And drifting, ’cause I said that, like I knew what it was. And literally, because I was just thinking of the film title.
NB: Drifting is, you cut the wheel hard, so your front tires go to where your wheel is, and then your back tires skid, to where the front of the car is going, until you make, like a circle. And you, like, like, kinda glide.
LA: That is terrifying.
SZ: Yes.
NB: Yeah. [laughs].
LA: I’m so impressed. [laughs].
NB: They’re like, you cannot do it, because it’s hard to control doing it. But you can ride along with someone who does it. So like, Sasheer came along and was like, I’ll watch. I think that’s a good friend thing. And then also, if a friend says, no, I think twice, I think you let it go, and then pivot to, would you mind watching me do it. Or, I’ll, I’ll go do it alone. Yeah, I don’t think you should force anyone.
SZ: You don’t need to force anyone. And hopefully, this friends fear doesn’t like, end the activity. Like, hopefully, it’s not like-Oh, we have to go back to the hotel now. [laughs].
LA: And then, that’s on that friend. You know, you kinda hope that there’s like a, a balance, where they’re like, I appreciate that you aren’t going to peer pressure me into doing this thing. But I’m not gonna make you miss out on anything.
SZ: Exactly, there should be some compromise.
NB: Well that was like, in Mexico, you went up those Aztec stairs to Heaven and I said, I simply will not. Uh, ‘Cause they were like, it’s pretty steep. And I was like, I fall very easily. Um, so I just like, sat and made friends with a family, and Sasheer went up to Heaven. [laughs]. Um, but, [laughing], I think there’s something to, just being down, to like, wait.
Like, experience as much as you like, but like, this is my boundary and I’m happy to watch you do something. I took pictures of her on those stairs. I waved goodbye, [laughing], said have fun in Heaven. And I waited for her to get back. I think the friend who doesn’t want to do something, I think it’s more on them, to be like, happy to be a cheerleader, happy to sit. Um, but I don’t… This is not for me. ‘Cause it’s like, you didn’t need me to climb stairs. And you took nice pictures.
