No one likes to dwell on it, but bullying is a huge part of growing up, and this week the zeitgeist is saturated with it. Kids are using their cameras to pick on people in innovative ways, Tiktokers are parodying bullying in viral videos, and Instagram seems to be taking aim at cultural/political bullying (or bullying memers, depending on who you ask). Even God herself is bullying the poor Tripod fish.
What is the “flip the camera” trend, and why is is making everyone mad?
The “flip the camera” trend is a new and innovative form of bullying that works like this: A group of kids ask another kid to film them doing a dance or something. Then, while the video is being taken, one of them hits the “flip camera” button on the phone, so the videographer becomes the subject of the video. The resulting footage is posted on TikTok.
When I heard about this, my reaction was, “ok, so what?” But when you dig a little deeper, you learn that it’s not necessarily a harmless prank. The idea is not to have a laugh with your social equals, but to give the camera to a dork/dweeb/lamer/whatever, so you can make fun of them. This is the first video using this format, so you can see what I mean:
While it can be done harmlessly, like these cheerleaders pranking their teacher:
the videos where it’s clearly being done to mock someone not in the “in group” are genuinely sad:
We’ve made a lot of progress in society over the last few decades in convincing people that bullying is actually really bad, but young people will go to great lengths to do it anyway. The number of videos on the flipthecamera hashtag that are calling it out as bullying is encouraging, though.
Viral video of the week: Disney bullies
There is a yin to every yang, even online bullying. TikToker @MannytheMann1 is going viral for videos of his gang accosting strangers on a college campus, but he’s employing the tactics of the bullies in Disney Channel TV shows—think backwards baseball caps, exaggerated swagger, and super cheesy dialogue—for comedic effect. The pranks are all in good fun, and maybe something of a commentary on the stupidity of both bullying and Disney Channel shows.
It started with this scene:
Manny’s street improv has gotten more elaborate since, including dance battle challenges and a gang of toadies lining up to give the bully backup:
This one has been viewed nearly 60 million times:
What is a “potato bed”?
There is no shortage of online opinions about the best ways to sleep. This week’s trend is the potato bed. The idea is to make as cozy a sleep space as possible by stuffing as many pillows and blankets as you can into a fitted sheet, so you’re surrounded (and kind of crushed by) them. Here’s a video that illustrates how it works:
It would be easy to write this off as the flash-in-the-pan trend it probably is, but this, and the popularity of weighted blankets, could also indicate that Gen-Z is the first generation of young people to ever take “you should get more sleep” advice seriously. It also feels like a rebuke to the “24/7 grindset” mentality that was in vogue a few years ago. Or it could just be that winter is starting, and everyone wants to be cozy.
TikTok’s Tripod fish obsession
The internet loves tragic animals, and a lot of people on social media have become obsessed with the Tripod fish, an animal that may have the most tragic existence of any creature on earth. Fans and well-wishers are posting odes like this:
and videos like this:
Sometimes they are moved to tears by the fishes’ plight.
So what’s so bad about the Tripod fish’s life? Basically everything. Tripod fish (Bathypterois grallator) hatch from eggs and spend their early lives swimming about and trying to avoid predators in the only way they can—by going totally limp and hoping they’re mistaken for a piece of a jellyfish and left alone. If they live long enough, their eyes begin to melt, and long bony protrusions grow from their fins. No longer able to see or swim normally, the Tripod fish sinks. When it reaches the bottom (sometimes as deep as 4,000 meters), its bony spikes stick into the mud.
Nearly immobile and nearly blind at the very bottom of the sea, the tripod fish waits. If some food happens to swim by or drift down, it can direct currents of water towards its mouth, and maybe get something to eat. If not, it starves. Its only companions are parasites that feed on its blood, essentially stealing most of the food it’s lucky enough to catch.
Tripod fish don’t even get to mate with other tripod fish. Instead, the hermaphroditic sea animal releases a mixture of eggs and sperm into the cold water. If it’s lucky, another tripod fish’s genetic stew mingles with it and eggs are fertilized. If its unlucky, it fertilizes its own eggs. So maybe your life isn’t that bad, eh?
Instagram is targeting meme aggregators
I’m old enough to remember a pre-meme internet where people were expected to post things they made themselves, or at least credited the people they took from. Instagram seems to want to take us back to those days: The social media platform has started flagging meme pages for being duplicated content, essentially declaring war on shit-posting.
On Nov. 7, many Instagram users who posted non-original content—essentially meme farms that exist just to repost vast amounts of anything remotely interesting—received a notification that read, “Content you recently shared may not be original” with a list of posts that violated the duplicated content rule and a suggestion to delete them, lest penalties like post-limiting or shadow-banning result.
This policy essentially outlaws sharing memes, a puzzling decision for a social media platform—people like sharing memes. Many feel the target of the warning is a specific kind of meme: The notices were sent just as the popularity of Charlie Kirk face-swap memes (i.e. people sharing images of just about anything with Kirk’s face on it) were becoming popular While Kirkification seems to be an absurdist thing more than something actually meant to be political, it’s likely upsetting to some, and that could be driving Instagram’s decision. Or maybe the company just wants people to make their own content.
